Used for being overly focussed on ones' own problems. People who need Heather are often unable to appreciate the troubles of others (which would enable them to put things into perspective) and may burden 'anyone who will listen' by revealing their worries openly and repeatedly. Any resulting rejection can make them feel a sense of isolation, loneliness or of being misunderstood.
Negative emotion causing unhappiness:
Needy / Demanding / Fixated / Over-mothering
Positive emotion encouraged by the Essence:
Comforted / Responsive / Affectionate / Balanced